Sometimes some small event can make a change in your whole attitude and push you into a new mindset. I was walking on campus today, coming back to work after grabbing lunch. There were very few people on campus as it is the day before Thanksgiving and most are already home or on their way there.
As I walked along, I realized a college student – a young, attractive man, probably in his early 20's – was catching up to me. He said hello, and I, as always, gave a friendly greeting back. I thought that was it. But he continued, striking up a conversation. Now, I'll admit, part of me wondered if he was going to ask for money, or thought I was some big administrator on campus.
But most of me was quite flattered to have the attention. The whole event only lasted for a few minutes, but it came just when I needed it. I don't know why he chose me to talk to – whether it was attraction, or merely politeness. But, in any case, it got me past that feeling that I was unlovable. It made me feel special. I think it happened for a reason, just to let me know there is something better out there for me.
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