I think I am getting used to being alone. Finally, after all these years! This is a surprise to me, because I know that since I left my first husband, I have been pursuing relationships. Now, I can honestly say that the only relationship I am pursuing is with myself.
There are advantages to being alone:
- I can sleep spread out across the entire bed.
- I can snore when I sleep and not be concerned if I wake anyone up.
- I can sleep and not constantly be woken up by someone running into me, hitting me with their arms, snoring in my face, etc.
- I can eat what I want, when I want
- I can watch what I want without someone changing the channel on me
Oh, and there is so much more. I recently started an exercise and weight control program(I will not say diet, because this is a program I hope to sustain as a daily ritual, not just a fad). Doing such, I will not have to hear:
- Oh, I see you got more exercise equipment. Let's see how long that lasts.
- You're planning on cutting back on calories? Do I have to do this, too?
- No, I'm not going to work out with you! I don't have time!
There is a study that states that single women are more in shape than married woman. I can understand that, having to hear the above every time I tried to change me life.
I am changing my life now – for me. I don't have to impress anyone else, or include anyone else. I have a feeling I'm going to do pretty well – all by myself!
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