We return to lessons in our life if we haven't learned them the first time. I feel I am back to a place I was at many years ago, before my second marriage. The lesson is to relax and learn. And I think, it is also not to judge.
Before my marriage, I met and dated a handful of men, but one stood out in particular. He was a little rougher than me; not someone I would expect to be with in the long term, but the short term was fine (which is exactly how it ended up; just a few short months). But I learned to relax and appreciate the body as it is and not what the media pushes as the ideal body type because of him. And I also learned to let go and accept that this was all the lesson was about.
Not each person I meet will be a potential long term partner, but the connection can still be important.I think I just need to be open to what I will learn, and then, what I can take with me.
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