When You Can't Decide

Things are up in the air for me. I am waiting for someone to make a decision. This used to put me in a panic, but not anymore.

Oh, yes, it is annoying.I'll admit the waiting can be annoying. But it is no longer as disconcerting for me as it used to be. Because I now know if someone can't decide, a decision is made for them. And it might not be the choice that person wants, but it happens.

I had to learn this myself. It bothered me sometimes and angered me at others. And then I finally saw the pattern. When a decision was made which, perhaps, meant that I would not be with that relationship, or job, or whatever, I ended up in a better situation.

So, I will wait patiently and allow things to go the way they are meant to go. And I will continue on, knowing a decision will be made.