I've probably gone over this in my blog before. In fact, I am fairly certain of it, because I know this is an area that I need to work on and keep coming back to.
It is very easy for me to note the issues of everyone else, especially the men I am dating. this one isn't interested ("he must be superficial/interested in appearances/emotionally unavailable") and that one is too interested ("emotionally needy/clingy") Yes, I can come up with what I assume to be their faults quite easily.
Looking at myself and finding fault? Now that's more difficult. I can, of course, look at the extra pounds of weight that I strive to shed with each trip to the gym. But I am not looking deep enough, and part of me knows that.
What about me? How do I appear to others and what do I need to work on? If I make certain choices, I could appear to be just as superficial. I may be emotionally needy at times, when I show that I long for conversation.
I can't be perfect, but I can keep learning more about myself, and keep working to be better.
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