Throughout my life, I've heard the term "If you love someone, set them free" thousands of times. When I was younger, I would say, "Okay, I'll try this" but I would die inside as I did it, and then I would feel resentful if they didn't return.
When I got a little older, I would try it, but want it to be on my terms, and would generally try to manipulate them back.
Now, I don't just try it. I live it. I have found when I set someone free, it's because I know that it's not just about wondering whether or not they love me, and needing that love. I love myself enough that I don't need that love, but if it is there, then, okay, that's nice.
It's about how things are supposed to be. If someone is supposed to be with you, they will be. If they are not, setting them free may be the best thing for both of you - you'll both be happier.
Now if I could only get my ex boyfriend to understand that concept...
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