I've given in and gone back to dating. Interestingly enough, I initially did this to prove that I was at an age where no man would be interested in me.
But here I am, with two men who I am in contact with (yes, online.) One wants to see me; the other is taking his sweet time, but our conversations continue. Both give me enough details to allow me to gauge that they are, indeed, local (meaning not scammers from overseas.) Their responses are direct to my questions (fyi - a telltale sign that you have a scammer - their responses are vague, and generally don't connect with what you have written to them.)
Additionally, I can tell they are not perverts (I've been writing to each for almost a week, and neither has mentioned sex.) They are not interested in one night stands; otherwise, they would have tried to get my phone number by now (neither has.)
This is a waiting game for me, and maybe this is important. Patience may be a virtue, but it is not one of my best traits. Maybe this is necessary for me - I'll learn to wait and see.
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