The last time I wrote, I was pretty down. I had just about given up all hope in terms of my relationship.
A friend was talking with me last week. We were discussion relationships, and she talked about issues that she had been having. Boy, when you think you have it bad, talk to someone else, and you'll see things in a completely different way! Well, she asked if the guy I was with would be willing to listen and understand, and, possibly, make changes. I didn't think so.
Apparently, I was wrong. I talked to him, and told him about some of the big things that were bothering me with our relationship. Within a day, things had turned around 180 degrees. He took what I said to heart, and willingly (as opposed to grudgingly) made changes. And it wasn't for just one day. He's been at it, and been more aware of what the issue was, and continues to take steps to make things better. Which, of course, opens the door for me to reciprocate.
And I have. Just when things can sometimes seem their worst, a little unexpected change can make a big difference!
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