Okay, my issue of the day (week, month...) How do you tell someone who is being impossible to deal with that he is, well, impossible to deal with and not get mangled in the process? I can understand how the men in my life have had trouble dealing with me at certain "times" in the past, but those only lasted one to three days, generally. This has been going on non-stop for almost three months, and it just keeps getting worse. And the more I try to help, the worse it seems to get.
So I stop trying to help, and get out of the way, and I get snarked at for not wanting to be with him. I know that he is under pressure with the job, and the house, and I tried to tell him that I understood, but somehow the discussion got way off base, and he made some unflattering remarks about someone I work with, and that set me off.
And, so, I've decided to take another evening off, stay out of the way, and take care of myself. Maybe that's all I can do.
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